Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Steve's 40th Birthday Party Surprise

Steve's 40th birthday was on Christmas Day so two days later I threw him a surprise party. I rented a room at our rec center because our house is way too small for a lot of people. There were around 50 people there. My mom and dad helped me so much so here is a BIG shout out to them with lots and lots of thanks. Without them I wouldn't have been able to pull this off. They really worked hard and I am so thankful for them. I got Steve there by telling him that our friends the Berry were having a surprise party for their son Daniel who was home for a weeks from the army. I told him that Linda was needing a lot of help and so my mom and dad and I were going to go over early to help set up and bring food. I told him to bring the kids and then I called him and told him to please swing by the rec center because Olivia and Audrey's ballet teacher had a special treat for them that she didn't give them at the recital. When he showed up the lady at the front desk said the treats were in Room B where we were all waiting and here is where he walked in...

He seemed really surprised but I don't know how he didn't know. This was very hard to keep quiet. And I kept leaving things around that might have given it away but he said he didn't know.


The food table. A few of my close friends and family brought a dish but the majority of it was done my dad and mom. They made the best dishes that took some time but made the food table so awesome. Thanks mom and dad for all your hard work! And thanks to those of you who brought dishes.

The dessert and coffee table.


John and Lyn are becoming very close friends of Steve's through work. Great couple who really click with Steve and Lyn is so sweet and has made the kids pillow cases and little books.

Dr. Albert and his daughter are on the left. Steve met Dr. Albert through work and I have gotten to know him from all the dinners we have took him on. Great guy! And Susie and Brett are on the right. Steve and Brett met working together when we first moved to Denver 8 years ago. We have gotten to know their family very well and spent a lot of fun times together. Brett is one of Steve's closet friends here.

The Faimons! What a cute little family. We met them at a Parenting Class we took and I had known Emily a little before that at a MOMS group I went to. Very glad they could make it.

My dad's cousin Serena and her husband and sweet grandkids. Love you guys!

My cousin Josh and his wife and son and my cousin Jessica on the right.

Ah, the lovely Berry family! We have known them for about 6 years from church. Steve and Dave are pretty close buddies. The other part of their family is in the next pic.


The two older boys are part of the Berry family and then there is Thessa on the right from church and DeAnn from church. Then the younger guy is Josiah and he is part of the Keenan family. I TOOK a picture of the Keenans and when I went to upload these pictures it is nowhere to be found. What? That is weird, have no idea where it went. They are a family we met at church.

Scott and Sonia-we have known them from church but they go somewhere else and we haven't seen them in a very long time. So glad they could make it.

My awesome cousin Annie and her family-I love these guys and are so glad they could make the trip from Limon.

Dan Breed and his daughter Ellie-he is an assistant pastor at a church we have been visiting.

The deKoning family-we know them from church. Natasha is one of my very close friends here.

Owen and his buddy Jack hanging out at the coolers eating ice.

Blowing out his candles. Sadly, this is the only picture I got of my dad that night. AND I have no pictures of me or my mom. And not good ones of the kids. I was very busy in keeping things moving and getting the guests pictures that I forgot about our own family. I was bummed.

Steve being silly with Terri. She was due with her first child the day before the party so we didn't know if she would be there or not.

The pictures hanging on the far while are below

The first one was of his childhood up through high school. Or I called it the Pre-baldness stage!

Then it was his twenties and early thirties so there are pics of our wedding and honeymoon. Post-hair loss stage and Pre-children.

And then came the kids

Since I didn't take a pic of my parents at the party I took this one with his balloon the next day.

We had a great time! Everyone went around and introduced themselves, then we ate, played a 70's decade trivia game with questions about Steve mixed in. My brother Mike made me two CDs of 70's music so that was playing in the background. We roasted Steve and some people told some good stories about him and shared some fond memories of him. Then had cake. Lots of good memories and what made it very special was all the people who were able to come and share this with us (and help us set up and take down :) Thank you to all of you. You have been a big part of Steve's life in some fashion and we are so glad you are a part of it.

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Merry Christmas 2010!

The stockings were hung by the mantle with care
(WARNING: This post is long so get a cup of tea or skip to the next post)

Waiting patiently to come downstairs

Checking out the dollhouse that Santa left for them

Santa left a little computer for Owen and a dollhouse for the girls but if you look closer...

...I think Santa didn't realize he left us with a little black family. (Side note: my mom did some of my Christmas shopping bless her heart and she picked the dollhouse up for me but didn't look closely at the family that was included.) I didn't set it up until late on Christmas Eve and that's when I discovered the mishap. What could I do but set it up? I wondered what the girls would think. Funny thing is that they didn't seem to notice or care for a long time. The only time I heard anything about it is Olivia finally said, "Why is the family black?" I explained to her that Santa may have made a mistake or he may have just wanted them to remember that there are all kinds of people out there and why can't we play with a little black family. I think it's kind of cool. I was going to go buy the white family but I think we'll just keep what we have. Why not?

The girls got some coal bubble gum in their socks.

One of my favorite parts of Christmas this year was all the hugs going on. We hugged all day long and it was awesome.


To Mom Frum Olivia
(I love when kids are first learning to read and they sound out words and spell them like they sound)

In addition to the dollar items Olivia picked out for us she also went around the house and found presents for us. She gave me a bag of dress up jewelry and finger nail scissors. What a cutie!

Steve asked for a custom OU jersey. His football number in high school was 43 so he thought this was pretty nifty.


Lots of hugs for everyone

Olivia gave dad some glitter and some brads!


This is probably my favorite picture of the day. Audrey gave Olivia a book she picked out for her and then they gave each other the best hug it was priceless. They loved doing this for each other.

The princess with her new ponytail wig.

The day after Christmas my parents came down to celebrate with us.
Bubba LOVED his new fire truck from Grandpa and Grandma, he spent a lot of time on it.

Audrey and Olivia each picked out dollar items for each other, us, Owen, and Grandma and Grandpa. This is Grandpa when he received his activity booklet from Olivia...

...and his snow brush from Audrey.

Olivia and Audge posing in their new clothes from Grandma

Reading with Grandpa

Getting some good news (I'll explain in another post)